Yes, Good Men Still Exist and where to Find Them.
March 10, 2026
A post I made yesterday on My Threads profile read:
Ladies there are still a lot of good men out here.
Men who wake up every day and go to work.
Men who want to protect, provide, and build something meaningful with the right woman.
Men who value loyalty, peace, and a real partnership.
The truth is, many of these men aren’t perfect… but they’re intentional.
They’re trying. They’re learning.
They want love just like you do.
Sometimes the challenge in modern dating isn’t that good men don’t exist....
It’s that the loudest voices online highlight the worst examples, while the solid men quietly go unnoticed.
So don’t let the internet convince you that every man is the same.
There are men who will respect you.
Men who will be proud to stand beside you.
Men who want to grow with you, not compete with you.
The key is finding someone who is ready to build, not just browse.
And trust me… these men are still out here.
As a Matchmaker we work with them everyday.
I received all kind of feedback and follow-up questions.
So Let's go deeper....
Yes, I know it is easy to feel frustrated navigating the dating world, especially when meaningful connections seem rare. But here’s the honest truth from my vantage point....good men are still out here. What's even crazier...guess what, they are just as frustrated as you are. They're also looking for the same kind of genuine, lasting love that you are but it is hard for them to find just as well.
As a matchmaker, I often say that mindset and positioning are the two biggest factors that can either help or hinder someone in finding their person. Many people focus heavily on where to meet someone, but rarely take the time to evaluate how they are approaching dating and whether they are placing themselves in environments where compatible partners are likely to be.
Your mindset shapes how you view dating, relationships, and even yourself. If your outlook is influenced by frustration, past disappointments, or limiting beliefs, it can quietly affect the energy you bring into new connections. On the other hand, approaching dating with clarity, optimism, and intention allows you to recognize opportunities that may have previously gone unnoticed.
Positioning is equally important. It’s about being intentional with where you spend your time, the social circles you move within, and how you present yourself to the world. When you position yourself in spaces that align with your lifestyle, values, and aspirations, you significantly increase your chances of meeting someone who complements your journey.
Over the years, I’ve seen firsthand that when people make small shifts in their thinking and become more strategic in how they approach dating, everything begins to change. The right connections often start appearing when you align both your mindset and your positioning with the type of relationship you truly desire.
Here’s my advice on how to adjust your perspective, refine your approach, and open the door to authentic, meaningful connections.
Know What You Want
Take the time to reflect on your values, relationship goals, and the qualities that truly matter in a partner. Clarity helps you recognize the right man when he comes along.
Prioritize Quality Over Speed
It’s tempting to swipe through endless profiles or settle for convenience, but investing in better connections ensures long-term potential.
Trust the Process
Meeting the right person often takes patience and strategy. A curated approach whether through networking, meetups, dating apps, trusted matchmakers, friends or family, events...increases your chances of finding someone aligned with your life and vision.
Stay Open and Confident
Confidence attracts confidence. When you show that you know your worth and are selective about who you welcome into your life, it naturally draws men who are serious and compatible.
Remember, good men are out there looking for partners who are just as intentional and thoughtful about love. The key is knowing how to identify them and creating opportunities to meet them in spaces where compatibility is prioritized. I call it positioning yourself for dating success. It’s not about the quantity of options, but the quality of interactions that truly matter.
Now to what so many women asked for....places to find a good man!
Networking, Business and Entrepreneur Communities
Startup incubators, business masterminds, investment clubs, and real estate networking events often attract ambitious men building wealth and influence. Conferences, industry mixers, and professional meetups attract men with clear goals and stability.
Charity Gala, Volunteer and Fundraisers Charity Events
Philanthropy events often bring together successful professionals and business leaders who are involved in community causes. Men who give back to the community often have strong values and a compassionate nature.
Upscale Social Clubs & Membership Organizations
Private clubs, golf clubs, wine societies, a cigar club, Speak-easy... often attract men interested in refinement and meaningful connections.
Faith-Based or Spiritual Communities
Churches, temples, or spiritual groups can be excellent places to meet like-minded, value-driven men.
Fitness Classes & Sports Leagues
Men who invest in their health and wellness often demonstrate discipline, commitment, and social engagement. Tennis, Kickball, Basketball, Flag-football leagues often have these men.
Educational or Skill-Building Workshops
Cooking classes, self-help courses, or professional development workshops are great for connecting over shared interests.
Cultural & Arts Events
Museums, art galleries, theater performances, and concerts attract men with cultural curiosity and intellectual interests.
Travel & Group Experiences
Luxury retreats, group tours, or adventure trips attract men who are open-minded, adventurous, and capable of planning.
Social Circles & Referrals
Friends, family, and professional connections can be one of the most trusted sources for meeting men with strong character and shared values.
Curated Dating & Matchmaking Services
For Black professionals and elite singles seeking serious, lasting connections, high-end matchmaking offers more than convenience....it’s about compatibility, shared values, and genuine intent.
As read from My Bio, "I recognized a real disconnect in today's dating landscape: accomplished men often struggle to meet women who truly align with their standards, lifestyle, and long-term vision, while many women express frustration with finding the caliber of men they desire. I founded Bachelors Inc. to close that gap by elevating the standard and creating intentional, meaningful connections where successful men and exceptional women can genuinely complement each other's journey."
Love isn’t lost.
Joseph Dixon
If you're a highly eligible single looking for exceptional connections beyond the dating apps, visit Bachelorsinc.com. Your perfect match may already be waiting.